Break Again

When two people in love break up and they’re both your friends, which side do you take, the one who called for a break-up for an undisclosed reason or the one who didn’t see a break-up coming?

The answer would be very easy but I guess as a friend, you should know how to place yourself in this kind of situation. A saying goes like ‘if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it’, but since the relationship is already broken, ‘if it ain’t you who broke it leave the fixing to the ones who caused it’. In the process, I realized that a break-up is something personal, something that shouldn’t be pressured by people outside that broken relationship. None of those two people owe their friends an explanation unless they want to. But what should be expected from a concerned friend?

A friend enters the picture once there is a breakdown and not during a break-up. A friend stays behind and not ahead and hopes that moving on will come easy for each and everyone.