The Ouch In February

Welcome February. Not my most favorite month I guess because when you’re single and love month comes in, you just feel like your heart is more vulnerable to feeling sadness, envy and even hurt at times. This Valentine’s I’m still officially single and my Friendster profile can attest to that but I’ll be feeling alone for the first time since this will be my first Valentine’s after college without my friends around. Good thing, I’ll be busy with a long training starting February 12 and on Valentine’s Day itself, I’ll be at work, coming home late since I’ll be stuck on EDSA traffic. For now, while still having plenty of idle time here at bench, I managed to get some instant inspiration and relief through Google, which I thought is worthy of sharing to fellow singles out there who are feeling the ouch this February:

“Love is a surprise, because it’s never what you thought it would be and it never comes when you wish it would. While we are waiting for the love, the universe provides us with family members, friends, and others with whom to evolve. When you are being love to these people in your life, you cannot feel lonely while waiting for your beloved. We have so much to practice, and many with whom to do so. Love is never exclusive.” (-excerpt from Break Up or Break Through: A Spiritual Guide to Richer Relationships by Dr. Dina Bachelor Evan)